To marry =)!!!
Our officiant (my G'Mom), had sent me and email sending us blessings on our wedding. Like other couples we had to take some compatibility tests by answering important questions about us individually and us as a couple. So we sent her our answers last weekend.
Anyway, my FI wasn't completely thrilled about answering the questions because he assumes that my G'Mom already knows us and knows we are compatible. BUT I know it doesn't work that way. First off, my G'Mom knows me and not really him. Secondly, she didn't know the priorities in our lives and what we thought about important subjects as children, finances and religion. I found this exercise to have been a great one that I would recommend to all couples whether they were getting married in a church or not. What I got out of it is that my FI and I really are compatible and not because I love him witha ll my heart. It is because we want the same things in life. We think alike and feel the same way about the important issues in life and that is the most important thing to me.
So her words of advice... "No matter what, there is only one correct answer, "Yes Dear". Now go ahead and grow old" =)... Gotta love her!
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